If you are a woman, the goal is to be able to put him and yourself in a sex trance or tantric trance any time you want.
That's when you enter into a whole new dimension in life.
The day I discovered these tools in my life through intense practice with a partner I had, it RADICALLY changed my vision of not just sex, it totally impacted in the way I perceive life and male female interactions as well.
I honestly believe that this is EXACTLY what you look for and is easily accessible to you.